Nowadays, I know about being in present time and following intuition, and I firmly believe these are what lead to satisfaction in life.

Many of us are finding ways to be right in the present moment, for example by meditating, getting into our creative flow, and being in moments of joy with loved ones.

Once our attention is in the present moment, we can tune in to our intuitive prompts and follow them, if we want. To get better at this skill, we can practise choosing intuitively which way to drive home, and work up to the big things, which can include making interesting plans and building something up

Now, I think dating can be fun and relationships can enrich our lives, but they can also unnecessarily complicate things. An all-consuming relationship, where our neglect stuff like schoolwork or our own hopes and dreams, is harmful in the long run. A good relationship can withstand, even become strengthened by long-distance and other short-term challenges. Therefore, I shouldn’t pass on opportunities like attending a dream college far away or spending a summer abroad for the “sake of a relationship.”

One of my msn friend told me that he cant found any love partner in his life... ComeOn, you’re not, I swear. Sure, having a special romantic and sexual partner can be a wonderful, mutually beneficial experience. That is, when the person, place, time and situation is “right.” Committing to someone you are not really into just for the sake of having a boyfriend or girlfriend is not going to result in the fun, fulfilling relationship that we were dreaming of. In fact, it could be really bad or leave us feeling really limited over time, even making us miss out on a truly great match! If you’re feeling lonely and thinking an on-call lover–best friend would provide that salve for you soul, please bear this in mind. Haha, I experienced it before.

My suggestion is get support from friends. Talk about the hopes and dreams, get realistic assessments, and listen to their advice. They can be some of our best supporters and they often genuinely want to help. The second point is take responsibility for our actions and for our life. Don't let fate run our life! Get informed about safer sex and stock up on birth control, don't just dream it but do it! jia you^^